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CCAR RESPONSA

Contemporary American Reform Responsa

27. Dress Code for Religious

School

QUESTION: Our religious school has insisted on a dress code for

young people both in school and especially for the attendance at synagogue services. Is there

anything in Jewish tradition that points to “proper attire” for attendance at synagogue services?

(Kenneth G. Jacob, Pittsburgh, PA)ANSWER: This question leads us to look at the

sumptuary legislation in the past. The question may be restated as follows: Does the Jewish

tradition give the synagogue community or the rabbinate the right to legislate on the question of

dress? We will find that such legislation began in Mishnaic times (M. Sotah 9.14) when the rabbis

prohibited the use of “crowns of the bridegroom” during the war of Vespasian and “diadems of

the bride” during the war of Titus. Restrictions applicable to synagogue services

became frequent in the Middle Ages. Many decrees may be found beginning with the early

fifteenth century. These represented reactions to the danger of envy by Gentiles. The decrees

passed at Forli, Italy, in 1416, dealt with extravagant dress worn in public. Some idea of the

detailed nature of such sumptuary legislation may be given through a short quotation from acts

passed in Metz in 1690: “On Saturdays and festive occasions women are allowed to wear only

ordinary veils. God-mothers are allowed to wear others only on the evening before circumcision

or the Saturday following the birth of a boy. Veils of gold or silver are expressly forbidden, except

on the Saturday preceding a wedding, to the mother of the bride, her mother-in-law, sisters-in-

law, sisters, grandmothers and aunts. This privilege lasts for the two days before the wedding

and extends to women who conduct the bride to the synagogue on the morning of the wedding

and those who accompany her under the hupah” (Alfred Rubens, A History of Jewish

Costume, p. 196). Similar details curbing extravagant clothing of men may be found in a

wide variety of medieval sources (Louis Finkelstein, Jewish Self-Government in the Middles

Ages and Cecil Roth, Gleanings). A discussion of special garments to be

worn on the Sabbath appeared in the Talmud (Shab. 113a), and declared that those who

possessed a change of clothing should wear the new clothing on the Sabbath, and those who do

not simply should make the old clothing look a little better in order to honor the Sabbath. The

passage sought to assure that the Sabbath was distinguished from other days in every possible

way, “dress, speech, manner of walking, etc.” Even here one rabbi opposed this on the grounds

of ostentation, but that opinion was rejected. David ibn Zimri (16th century) mentioned special

clothing worn by men and women on the Sabbath; in Egypt these were white (Responsa

II, 693; IV, 62), while Lampronti cited a number of sources which indicated that a woman’s

special Sabbath garb might only be sold if one needed money for sustenance (Pahad

Yitzhaq). None of this, however, was concerned specifically with dress in the

synagogue. There were also strong prohibitions against wearing clothing akin to the

costume of non-Jews. A taqanah was mentioned by Güdemann against wearing

clothing of monks and nuns in the synagogue (Geschichte, Vol. I, pp. 260 ff; Meir of

Rothenburg, Responsa #18). We know from other sources that medieval Jewish travelers

often found safety in dressing themselves like monks and nuns (Sefer Hassidim, ed.

Margolis, #702). This prohibition was codified by Maimonides (Yad Hil. Avodah Kokhavim

11.1) and in the Shulhan Arukh (Yoreh Deah 1.78). Isserles, however, stated that the

prohibition applied only to religious vestments used in actual services, not to clothing which

happens to be similar to that of Gentiles. Both Caro and Isserles agreed that such garments may

be worn if required for attendance at court or government functions (for a recent brief discussion

of this, see Moses on, “Hukat Akum,” Hadarom, #40, pp. 47 f). Another

medieval taqanah dealt with the problem of dirt caused by wooden shoes worn in the

synagogue and prohibited them inside the building (Güdemann, Geschichte, Vol.

III, pp. 267 ff, quoting Moses Cohen, Book of the Pious). This regulation was akin to

contemporary church rules which were concerned with the ostentation of wearing such shoes as

well as the noise caused by them; it forbade the worshiper to bring a second clean pair for wear

in the church. We can see from this and other sources which might be cited that

rabbinic authorities had the authority to regulate dress within and outside the synagogue.

Certainly, this would have been used to assure the proper attire had such legislation been

necessary. A modern rabbi must also insist that dress in the synagogue be appropriate, but not

ostentatious.March 1976

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